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TheConzio
18th March 2014, 01:54 PM
I was looking around this part of the forum, and I thought of making an 'inspirational stories' thread, where anyone can post inspirational and meaningful content, whether it's from their own experiences or not.

I will start by sharing this particular story.

"Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same
hospital room.
One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an
hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from
his lungs.
His bed was next to the room's only window.
The other man had to spend all his time flat on
his back.

The men talked for hours on end.
They spoke of their wives and families, their
homes, their jobs, their involvement in the
military service, where they had been on
vacation..

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the
window could sit up, he would pass the time by
describing to his roommate all the things he could
see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those
one hour periods where his world would be
broadened and enlivened by all the activity and
colour of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.
Ducks and swans played on the water while
children sailed their model boats. Young lovers
walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour
and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen
in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in
exquisite details, the man on the other side of
the room would close his eyes and imagine this
picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window
described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could not hear the band -
he could see it in his mind's eye as the
gentleman by the window portrayed it with
descriptive words.

Days, weeks and months passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring
water for their baths only to find the lifeless body
of the man by the window, who had died
peacefully in his sleep.

She was saddened and called the hospital
attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man
asked if he could be moved next to the window.
The nurse was happy to make the switch, and
after making sure he was comfortable, she left
him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one
elbow to take his first look at the real world
outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window
besides the bed.
It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have
compelled his deceased roommate who had
described such wonderful things outside this
window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and
could not even see the wall.
She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage
you.'

Epilogue:
There is tremendous happiness in making others
happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness
when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things
you have that money can't buy.
'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The
Present .'

The origin of this letter is unknown."

Snakenator1
18th March 2014, 05:14 PM
That's amazing *sheds a tear*

This thread is amazing, a place where we can learn about the story of others or something they know they want to share.
I'll share my back story then, its inspired the people I shared it with so it might be relevant to some:

When I was 11yrs old it was my first day at high school, a nerve wracking time for me.
I suffer from high functioning Autistic spectrum, this means making friends is hardest task for me to accomplish in everyday life.
I was known for being very quiet in lessons, many said I was shrouded in mystery and so I had little friends.
Every break and lunchtime I would take shelter from others in the school library, where people understood me and my few friends would meet me.
I was often bullied for my disability, people hated me, disregarded me, never cared for me.
I often go home crying because of this.

I soon fell into depression, convinced I was not wanted by others, my family my only hope to make me carry on in life.

It wasn't till the third week when, someone new came to the library I sheltered in. That person was introduced to everyone in the library, even me. Though I gave little response.
But this person was determined to learn about me, everyday this person talked to me, trying to open the shell I hid in. They then told me their name:

Danielle. She persisted to know me better, she never gave up on me when others did.

She listened to me in my times of difficulty, someone who I can share my feelings with, we became best friends throughout then.
But towards Year 9, my school announced it was being shut down, we had to change schools.
Danielle was being sent to a different school to me, my only real friend was taken from me.
I soon started to fall into depression again, but Danielle gave me her contact details to stay in touch, this kept me happy.
The last day though the details were stolen from me, the people who bullied me, determined to keep me sad, destroyed the card and burned them.
My only hope of staying in touch gone.

Something then in me changed, not towards anger, but determination grew within me.

I spent the remaining years of high school trying to attain contact with Danielle, never giving up, I wanted to prove how much she meant to me.
All my efforts were in vain, but I was not ready to fall into depression, not again.
Three years passed, searching for my dear friend, filled with hope i'll see her again.

That day soon came.

The first day of college, I bumped into her in the corridors, I said hi, she hugged me.
I established a proper contact with her, this time permantley.
I organised days with her so we could catch up, growing closer than before. She introduced me to her new friends, I insistently bonded with them.
My friends list exploded, happiness grew for me, my parents were proud of me.

Then one night, one of my friends talked me, she convinced me to tell Danielle something, and ask a question which I thought due to my disability, was Impossible.

I told Danielle I loved her, and would she be my girlfriend. She said yes.
I've never been happier before in my life.


Basically, the morale of my backstory is those who live in a shell, you must find a friend who you can bond with deeply. Never let them go. You must achieve to be happy, determination will get you far in life, never give up and no matter what happens you will find someone who you will soon love :)

TheConzio
19th March 2014, 12:48 PM
Great story Snake, I hope that one day I will find someone who I can love and share everything with. :)

Snakenator1
19th March 2014, 04:05 PM
This is a really cool thread though, awesome idea of yours.

Don't worry though, you'll find someone one day, I never thought I have the one I love right now. Just remember to seize the moment when you can ;)